Enter the world of Mistress Helen Ryder, a confident and multi-faceted dominatrix based in West Sussex. Her private playroom is a safe, discreet, and fully equipped space where fantasies come alive. On occasion, she also works from commercial dungeons in Gatwick and Brighton, offering flexible options for her clients.
Mistress Helen is a natural-born leader, combining warmth with authority. Her sessions are fully tailored to your interests, ensuring that every experience is unique, immersive, and consensual. She welcomes both newcomers and experienced players, helping you explore BDSM, domestic discipline, spanking, humiliation, as well as creative sissy transformations and feminisation sessions. All genders are welcome.
With years of lifestyle and professional experience, Mistress Helen knows how to blend psychological play with physical discipline, creating a safe environment where boundaries are respected, and fantasies can be explored fully. Her approach is not just about pain — it’s about trust, erotic tension, and fun.
Her private space includes a variety of fetish furniture and professional equipment, from restraint boards and cages to spanking benches and sensory deprivation setups. She also offers more intimate domestic-style scenes for those who prefer a personal, relaxed setting. Hygiene and safety are paramount, with all equipment carefully sanitized and procedures followed meticulously.
Booking is by appointment only, with polite and respectful communication expected. Sessions are bespoke, evolving naturally according to your interests and limits. Mistress Helen’s wardrobe and presence heighten the experience, adding authority, elegance, and a touch of mystery.
For those seeking a Mistress who combines discipline, sophistication, and genuine care, Mistress Helen Ryder provides an unforgettable experience, guiding you safely into your deepest fantasies and desires.













