Sassy. Saucy. Straight to the point. Whether you’re just curious or dying to kneel, this is your naughty crash course into the world of domination, submission, and delicious control.
1. BDSM
An acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. The kinky umbrella under which all the fun begins.
2. Domme (or Dominatrix)
The woman in charge. She doesn’t ask — she commands. And you want to obey.
3. Submissive (Sub)
The willing one who gives up control. Obedient, eager, and hungry to please.
4. Consent
Nothing happens without it. The sexiest word in the entire kink dictionary.
5. Safe Word
A pre-agreed word that means “Stop right now.” Like a parachute. Use it proudly.
6. Aftercare
The soft bit after the rough stuff — cuddles, water, kisses, reassurance. Essential.
7. Limits (Hard & Soft)
Hard: absolutely not. Soft: maybe, with the right partner. Know yours, respect theirs.
8. Scene
A kinky session. Could last minutes or hours. Planned, played, and sometimes… replayed.
9. Impact Play
All the spanks, slaps, whips, and paddles. Sting, thud, moan, repeat.
10. Bondage
Ropes, cuffs, tape — anything that keeps someone delightfully restrained.
11. Spanking
Simple. Effective. A lovely red arse is its own reward.
12. Flogging
A whip with tails. Sensual or savage, depending on the mood (and the wrist).
13. Collar
More than a necklace. It can symbolise ownership, submission, or devotion.
14. Chastity
Lock it up. No touching. No cumming. Until she decides you’ve earned it.
15. Power Exchange
One gives up power, the other takes it — all consensual, all thrilling.
16. Dominance
Control, command, presence. Doesn’t need to shout — a look is enough.
17. Submission
Letting go. Offering yourself to someone you trust — body, mind, and moans.
18. Switch
Both sides of the coin. Dominant one day, submissive the next. Lucky bastard.
19. Vanilla
Non-kinky sex. Lovely in its own way. Just not where we’re going.
20. RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
You know the risks, you accept them, and you play safe. Respect.
21. Dungeon
A play space for grown-up games. Leather, steel, toys… and no judgement.
22. Pet Play
Wearing a tail, crawling, purring, or barking. Be a good girl/boy/pup.
23. Sissification
Dressing up a sub (often male) in hyper-feminine gear for control, humiliation, or play.
24. Financial Domination (Findom)
She drains your wallet — and you thank her for it. Power through pounds.
25. CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)
Exactly what it says on the tin. Only for the bravest crown jewels.
26. Tease and Denial
Get them worked up… then stop. Repeat. Cruel? Yes. Delicious? Also yes.
27. Humiliation
Verbal degradation, embarrassment, exposure — but always with permission and purpose.
28. Begging
A fine art. When done right, it’s music to a Domme’s ears.
29. Edge Play
Pushing physical or mental limits. Dangerous territory — for experienced players only.
30. Needle Play
Piercing the skin. Not for the faint-hearted. A very specific kind of high.
31. Wax Play
Dripping hot candle wax onto skin. Warm, stingy, sensual. Always use the right wax!
32. Breath Play
Controlling oxygen for heightened sensations. Risky, intense, and must be done safely.
33. Gag
A device that silences — ball, bit, or tape. Because sometimes, subs talk too much.
34. Blindfold
Take away sight and everything else feels stronger. Anticipation is a drug.
35. Restraints
Cuffs, ropes, straps. If you can’t move, you feel more. Trust the bind.
36. Sadism
Pleasure in giving pain. A whip in one hand, a grin in the other.
37. Masochism
Pleasure in receiving pain. Moans, welts, tears — and loving every second.
38. Rules
A Domme’s to-do list for you. Break them, and punishment comes next.
39. Obedience
Not just following orders — craving them. The dance of control and submission.
40. Training
Teaching a submissive how to serve, kneel, behave — and beg better.
41. Protocol
The expected behaviour in a Dom/sub dynamic. It’s not just play — it’s ritual.
42. Topping from the Bottom
When a submissive tries to control the session. Naughty. And not in the fun way.
43. Public Play
A discreet kink session in public — hidden in plain sight. Risky and hot.
44. Play Partner
Someone you kink with. May or may not be your romantic partner.
45. Scene Drop
That post-kink crash when the endorphins wear off. Rest, hydrate, cuddle. It’ll pass.
46. Subspace
A floaty, high state submissives can enter during intense play. Like a kinky trance.
47. Domspace
The Dominant’s focused, heady, powerful high during a scene. Control is the drug.
48. Consent Violation
When someone crosses a boundary without permission. Never okay. Ever.
49. Safeword Check
A quick pause to make sure everything’s still consensual and fun. Essential.
50. Kink
Anything outside the norm that gets you off. Fun, thrilling, and uniquely yours.
